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08 August 2008 @ 12:22 pm
hello group. my name is brian. or amy. whichever. 

i am a 27 year old bigender (or genderqueer) bio male who often identifies and/or dresses as a woman. It has taken me many years to go from a purely fetishistic idea of crossdressing to a more levelled way of dressing as a way of expressing how i feel and identify. 

i have been blessed with an extremely supportive partner who has been open from the beginning and continues to grow with me as my needs and desires have changed. she is an amazing communicator and is very open minded.

we talk from time to time about what it all means and make sure that she is ok with where i am at currently and how my crossdressing may affect our lives down the road as far as kids, relatives, and such are concerned. 

she is worried sometimes that i do not have a more concrete idea of my gender identity and that i compromise my true self to adhere to a stereotype that i feel makes me more "feminine". 

it's a journey and i hope that this group really takes off. i would love to hear what SOs have to say about their men who like to dress up all pretty. :)
didactic_cudgel: She's got Legsdidactic_cudgel on August 8th, 2008 07:33 pm (UTC)
Welcome ... and you are doing it right. :D
not your mother's mothertellinellen on August 16th, 2008 05:55 am (UTC)
hi amy/brian! my spouse had always id'd as transvestite, but lately we have both wondered if there is more to it in terms of his gender ID. so i'm very interested to hear more about your feelings on being bigendered.

i hope this group takes off too!